New Perspective

It seems like forever since my last blog post. In the eyes of some I may not be considered a very good blogger. lol. If I am to be truthful, this site is meant to be uplifting and inspiring and I want to write about things that have meaning to me..not just ramble on and in the last few weeks my brain has been overloaded with thoughts..so much so I found it hard to write. Go figure!

Being a mom has to be one of the most rewarding yet toughest jobs in the world . There is always so much change to wrap your head around...within the next week..my only son will Graduate high school..and he begins a new jouney ...he turns 18 in a month and is no longer my little boy but a man..in September he begins College and his journey into a whole new world begins. Your role as a mom changes and through out each stage sometimes without even recognizing it happen you adjust..but the reality has come the final apron string is untied and my little caterpiller is going to spread his wings and be the most amazing butterfly..he doesn't even realize how amazing he is and how much I love him.

As you come to terms with this..you realize for 18 years your sole job as a mom was to love, protect, teach, inspire, encourage, this little person you brought into the world and now..he takes all of that as he ventures out into new territory..and you take all you have learned into new territory as your role sweetly changes once again.

I realized this past weekend ..ok not really realized because I already knew .. but needed a gentle reminder that sometimes all we need to do is allow ourselves to change our perspective on how we see, think and feel about things and soon we can see things in a new light. We all need that from time to time...we can't allow our own ego to keep us stuck in a mindframe that stuffles our understanding, ability to show kindness, love or compassion. If we do, how can you truly enjoy all life has to offer and the beautiful people in it who want to share it with us?

What ever changes are happening in your life..Be true to who you are...Be grateful..Be loving..Be Kind..and don't let other's unkindness and lack of understanding be a reflection of the person you are..its a reflection of who they are at this moment..we are all learning and growing xo

The End of the World?

Did I truly believe the world was going to come to an end on May 21, 2011? NO. I am not exactly certain why there are people who obsess over this kind of stuff and feel the need to instill fear in people. Haven't quite figured that out and to be honest not certain I even want to waste energy trying to.

I have spent the last two years of my life focusing on living a life of purpose ...living my passion and focusing on what brings me joy. I am comitted to not allowing my career to create a stress in my life that takes me back to a place in time where I was losing control over myself. I am comitted to working hard on maintaining a healthy lifestyle where good nutriution and exercise have become part of my new daily routine ..it isn't a chore it is a welcomed inspiration. I am comitted to healing past hurts and looking deep inside myself so that I may use the experiences in my life to help others and to be a better person each and every day. I am committed to maintaining an open mind that will allow me to have the courage to enjoy and experience new adventures. I want to enjoy watching my son grow as he begins to step out on his own..and to revel in the warmth of family time and time spent with friends that I love and adore.

There are days when these commitments to myself can seem daunting but I have learned to trust my body and myself enough to follow the path it leads me down. I am a thinker always have been , always will be and there are days when my mind never seems to stop. I have accepted that role..quite enjoy it actually! It allows me to question, to explore and to learn.

Do I need to worry about the world ending ...NO. We are all going to have the face the harsh reality that our life on this earth will eventually come to an end someday..until that someday comes I think I will use my energy to focus on the next healthy dish I can have fun cooking!

I prefer to Imagine and live with hope...it serves no purpose to live in fear!

In the opening lines of a new poem I wrote called The World is Changing..."The world is changing before my eyes as rulers crumble and leaders rise"

..the world..our world..your world..my world..is forever changing ..don't waste time wondering when it end...embrace it while you still can!

Dreams to Remember!

"I've got dreams to remember" what a super way to start a Sunday morning! How many people out there have dreams I wonder? I have to believe everyone!

Today is just as good as any to enjoy those dreams whether you are remembering..have decided to take action and make your dream come true or are in the midst of living your dream!

Whatever stage you are in..never be afraid to dream!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=if9rI9BoUas

"Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember you have the strength, patience and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world" Harriet Tubman

What Easter Means to Me- Happy Easter Friends!

As I was enjoying my morning cup of java I began to reflect on the meaning of Easter. I have to admit I am not one for the rules of the church but I do consider myself religious. I do believe in a higher power and I believe in the spirit of what that belief instills in the heart. I'm certain everyone has their own meaning of Easter but since this is my blog I will share the feeling from my heart! lol

I like to keep things simple so when thinking about what this weekend represents for me it is about rebirth, coming alive , love, forgiveness, sharing and compassion. So the story goes, in the end Jesus sacrificed his own life to save others. He didn't think twice about it..it was his purpose.

I believe if you keep this thought in your heart then you embrace the meaning of Easter and it is carried throughout the year. What a beautiful feeling to have and to treat others with. It is a reminder that we are human and we all have our quirks but each of us is wonderful in our own way . We all have the opportunity and strength to make changes, embrace changes and enjoy change. Most of all ...once you love, forgive, and have compassion for yourself ...it is easy to share and extend all those magic qualities to others!

What a perfect season to celebrate Easter..a season where everything comes alive after the harshness of winter..a reminder to us all to enjoy new beginnings, and to come ALIVE and enjoy all the colour in life! Each year we are given the opportunity to see , learn and embrace this message until one year you truly "get it"!

Whatever your meaning of Easter is to you...may you enjoy time with family, friends and sneak in a little chocolate too....that is always fun!!!

Do YOU Enjoy Saving Money?

I was recently introduced to the latest craze on the internet that I have to say intrigued me. With the economy the way it is and the increase in prices of just about everything from food to utlities the average income family is having to really pay attention to spending. I know it certainly forced me to make some changes in how I spend my hard earned dollars!

Remember years ago when paper coupons were a big thing and people would check the papers and cut out any coupon that would offer a savings , if you could save 10% on a tube of toothpaste why not?

With the facination of the internet now so prevelant in everyday life becoming one of the leading marketing channels for business , we now have WagJag, Groupon, Koopon and Redtag hitting the stage in full force.

These on line sites are offering huge saving opportunities for consumers on just about every type of item you can think of. It is a win-win situation all around..business owners are advertising gaining new customers by the dozens, consumers are being offered huge discounts and the Wag Jag's of the world are captilizing on an innovative idea that seems to be working.

Before you charge off to buy something..take a moment and check out these sites..you can even set it up so they email you the deal of the day in your area. Deals that crossed my computer were as high as 75% off and greater. The product line is vast from resturants, spa's, kids activities, clothing, trips, life experiences, general intrest lessons in photograhy, bartending etc.. It truly is facinating and it is the real deal!

Come on who doesn't love to save money?

http://www.redtag.ca/

http://www.groupon.com/

http://www.wagjag.com/

http://www.koopon.ca/

Enjoy!!!