Now that Santa has made his appearance and officially kicked off the Holiday season the decorations in the house are slowly turning from fall colours to spurts of Christmas red and green. The outside lights are up..and in a couple of weeks the tree will make it's way to the living room
For some this time of year is stressful beyond belief ..whether it is searching for the perfect christmas gifts for loved ones, preparing the house for dinner parties , cooking, decorating, wrapping, visiting, dealing with family, ..people get so stressed out wanting to create the perfect setting they forget to enjoy the spirit of the season. Its easy to get caught up in the commerical side of holidays that the true meaning of these times is pushed aside..
Here are a few tips I found useful during the holidays:
- Laugh lots and allow yourself to be a kid..enjoy the season thru a childs enthusiam
- Remember the spirit of the season..it isn't about being "perfect"..enjoy what you are doing and if you don't enjoy it..stop ..breath..and ask yourself why you are doing it
- Use a calender..keep track of events you commit to and pencil in time to do nothing..yes nothing and let the day evolve as it may
- Make a list of all the To do items it will help you keep track of things and allow you to prioritize whether it is gift list , food list, decorating list, christmas card list etc
- Keep all your gift reciepts in one spot. Get an envelope and each time you buy a gift put the receipt in the envelop. That way when you need them they are not scattered around the house , car or your purse
- Time management- Don't leave things to the last minute unless of course you are one of these people who works best under pressure!
- Make use of storage bins for your decorations and label things so its easy to find
- When you put decorations away from one season to the next don't just throw them in the box ..Christmas lights all tangled oh ya been there done that ..and when the season rolls around again you are frustrated before you even begin!
- Get out and play in the snow..yes play in the snow at least once!
- Give and speak from your heart..
If you stay organized during the holidays it certainly helps you to enjoy them a lot more..and remember stay calm and don't worry about being "perfect"...
Take control of the holidays don't let them take control of you!
Enjoy!